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Go On, Make Someone’s Day – I Dare You

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Kindness and a generous spirit go a long way. And a sense of humor. It’s like medicine — very healing.
Max Irons

What does it take to make your day?

It might seem that only the biggest things can turn a rotten day into a better one. You long for a scratchcard win, a £50 note discovered on the ground, a declaration of undying love, or a letter of acceptance for that thing you’ve been hoping for and dreaming about. Those things would certainly make you feel better.

They’re also almost guaranteed not to happen.

What are the odds, right?

But something changed my mind.

Work had been difficult, and then I caught a horrible cold. Think congested, feverish, head stuffed, can’t breathe, can’t sleep misery. Well, still gotta work, so I slogged on. After surviving one long morning in which all I wanted to do was run away home and hide under my blanket, there was a knock at my door. I expected another claim on my time and fading energy, and my heart sank.

Instead, the receptionist brought in flowers. A pink bouquet with a card that read ‘your (sic) in our thoughts’. It had been left by someone I had seen earlier. I was so moved by this, I could have wept.

I work in a so-called caring profession. I have colleagues, family, and friends, some of whom knew how ill I felt. Yet this came from a near-stranger, who went to some trouble to help me feel better.

Even a humble daisy would have shown me she cared. And I let her know I appreciated her gesture, more than she knew. It made me smile on a tough day, and that can be the greatest gift of all.

The excellence of a gift lies in its appropriateness rather than in its value.
Charles Dudley Warner

It takes so little to shine a light, and you never know who needs it most.

It need not be flowers; it can be any small, authentic kindness. Eye contact and a smile, a sincere inquiry followed by active listening are often missing in daily life. If we supply them and are genuine then we connect on a basic human level, and that’s what we all crave.

Make that tea or coffee without being asked. Drop change in the cup. Buy their favourite pastry, just because.

When backed by action, the thought really does count.

How could you brighten someone’s day? Look for ways to pay it forward. Go on — I dare you.

(first published 16 May 19 by Publishous on Medium)


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